What is real beauty? Are you looking for it? (Part 1)

Have you ever really thought through the idea of beauty? Is it a tangible thing? Sure it is, however beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. Let’s look at an example, I can show you a photo of my son with his hair all a mess and a smile filled with missing teeth and all I see is beauty. I don’t see beauty just because he’s my son, I see beauty because I know that smile on his face is there because also in this photo is his brand new one day old sister, he’s no longer JUST a little brother… He’s now a BIG brother!

My son with his little sister

He’s no longer just a little brother… He’s a big brother!


Beauty can be found in the most unusual of places. Sometimes beauty is profound, I can be heard in the lyric of a song, speaking of such things as redemption, victory even loss. Every time I hear Steven Curtis Chapman sing about the loss of his young daughter I don’t hear despair, I hear beauty. Sometimes the flaw in beauty is bigger than a physical flaw, it can be loss…


So many times beauty is not found in order or symmetry but it’s found in the scars and imperfections. Think about that odd beauty left behind after a forest fire, can you see those beautiful dark scars framed by a brilliant sunset…

Burned forest

There is beauty in the scars


Helen Keller once said, and I’m paraphrasing “the most beautiful things in this world cannot be seen or touched, they must be felt”.

Baby girl

Nothing more beautiful than the unconditional love of a child.


I so love photos of people who have let their guard down, when they are not trying to fake a smile, when they are just being themselves. I think this is why I’m drawn to the works of Richard Avedon or Irving Penn; both photographers had this ability to capture the soul of a person rather than the face they are trying to show the world.



Stay tuned for part two…

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